So manage to go out about once every week (usually with the other volunteers here in Antofagasta). Some of these experiences have been pretty ordinary and others have been rather interesting.
My first time out was probably the most exciting because I got lost on my way back to my house. I didn't know the city or my neighborhood very well and since much of Antofagasta looks rather similar to my eyes (one story house with walls and little stores with signs of “hay pan”) when the bus started going up to the top of the hill Antofagasta rests and we hadn't gone to the top of the hill going into the downtown area, I assumed I missed my stop and got off. My plan was to walk down the hill to the coast, get my bearings and then walk back up the hill to my host family's house. I had spent sometime already walking along the beach and thought I could tell where I was when I got there. Unfortunately, when I reached the beach that didn't prove to be the case, but because I had to have passed my stop I started walking back towards downtown figuring I'd recognize a landmark soon enough. It turns out though that my assumptions were all wrong and that the bus actually hadn't passed my house; the buses don't take the exact same routes going north as they do going south. It all ended up working out though. After walking 30 minutes in the wrong direction, I ran into a young couple in an old beat up van parked on the beach eating Chinese food and asked them how to get to my house. After they told me it was a long ways away, I managed to convince them to give me a ride in exchange for some cash. It took them maybe 10 minutes to drive me home, with van motor revving loudly the whole time (particular when we went up the hill).
My next time out, another volunteer and I went to a schloperia, which is basically a dive bar that typically only men go to. They almost solely serve cheap beer (Cristal, Escudo, Brahmia are the big beer brands here … much of Antofagasta income is from mining so the town and the schloperias have a blue collar feel to them). While we were talking, a Chilean man came up to our table and told us he'd buy us a round if he could join our table and talk English with us. We said sure and conversed for awhile. He then bought us another round and we continued talking. On the back from the bathroom (they had a trough just like at UMD) a different man comes up to me and speaks to me in broken English and asks if our table needed more beer. I said no definitely not because we had already drunken too much (a beer here is basically a liter) but he either did not understand or didn't listen because soon enough another round appeared at our table. After mostly finishing that, our new friends asked us if we wanted to find some girls at a discotheque but both me and the other volunteer were tired so we headed home instead.
This past weekend, the volunteers and I went to a nice small discotheque on the third floor of the Antofagasta Mall. Because of the connections of one the schools' secretaries, we didn't have to pay the cover which would have been 15 dollars! The place was very nice and it had an excellent view of Antofagasta (because at 3 stories up it was one of the tallest buildings in town. The city really looked like a carpet of lights spread out along the hill. This time I managed to stay up until 6am which is the time when parties in Chile typically end. I don't know how people here do it … as is my style I took a nap before heading out, however my host mom regularly comes back to the house at 6 am without needing a nap beforehand.
This upcoming weekend I am supposed to attend a Chilean asado (bbq) with my host mom. Details next week.
"I managed to convince them to give me a ride in exchange for some cash."
ReplyDeleteI bet the couple went home and told all their friends that they had a cute American boy in this van. I feel like you were lucky they didn't kidnap (rape?) you or something...but maybe that is something only we skinny pale girls worry about when we are in a car with random people. =P
nahhh it was chill, I knew they were safe especially because when I asked for how to get back to my house and said something to the effect of that I was going to walk there, they gave each other a look of like uhhh that is not a good idea and then tried to explain to me the section of town I was going to walk through was dangerous and then urged me to go find a collectivo or something like that .... I only understood a little of what they said but I understood that they were worried about my safety. Indeed, it was that worry as much as me saying I would give them cash caused them to give me a ride especially since we didn't discuss costs .... and I was really appreciative of their generosity (especially since I barged in on their cute date on the beach) so I gave them a really good payment.
ReplyDeleteskinny pale girls definitely worry about these things more than some people
thanks for perpetuating sexist stereotypes by frequenting a bar that typically only men go to. i expect that next time you will stage a protest and burn a few bras before moving on to a more politically correct drinking location.
ReplyDeletehahah ... 1970's feminism has been played out ... girls are allowed to go ... there was one or two there ... they just prefer largely not to spend their time in company of drunken blue collar men. But I will work on trying to change their preferences.
ReplyDeletei was mostly joking. they had places like that in sierra leone, except that for all intensive purposes, white women are considered men.
ReplyDeleteSo how did you like being a man?
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